Since I saw my name I thought I'd throw in my $0.02.
Trust me right now me mindset is that we probably won't end up together so I'm doing what is right with me. I've learned through the help of a great boss who is also a preacher that I can't put my happiness in the hands of someone else. He kicks my butt when he knows I'm having one of those days.
That being said I still have hope that it can work. Also I know in my situation there is no OM, she literally doesn't have time, she's a Dr. and when I have the kids she's working. So if she did have OM he gets no time with her. Even if there was I wouldn't need to know since it wouldn't change what I'm doing, for me.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."