i loved that movie too....in a deep way and it seems like others I would talk to about that movie were like oh yeah thats a good movie....i am like to me it was deep....just seems ohters I know took it not the same..anyway love the movie...yeah my h choose her...( name irrelavant..) sad..but hey in the end it is their loss...while I know the loss is for the kids too....its kinda sad when u think of all they gave up...who would do that???