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It gives us an idea if your head is up your butt or on straight. : )



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Hi Sweetie, just saw your post on another thread this morning. I am sooo behind that I did not even realize you were back. You must be keeping a low profile....LOL. I am so glad to have you back home to help pass forward what you have learned on your journey. Just b/c our stitch is not perfect (at least mine isn't yet) it doesn't mean that we haven't learned a few things along the way, right?


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Hey Sandi!

I saw Punkt posting on Newbies...and his advice was amazing. I couldn't resist posting.



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Originally Posted By: stillloveshim
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Do I really have to explain that?

**side note: Where in Va are you? graduated from Tech.



No.
There are enough others that will post to you.
To me though, there doesn't seem to be much room in your head for new/additional knowledge. You already know everything.

I'm in Hampton Roads.

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Originally Posted By: sandi2
Hi Sweetie, just saw your post on another thread this morning. I am sooo behind that I did not even realize you were back. You must be keeping a low profile....LOL. I am so glad to have you back home to help pass forward what you have learned on your journey. Just b/c our stitch is not perfect (at least mine isn't yet) it doesn't mean that we haven't learned a few things along the way, right?


Sandi



Hey Sandi!

Yes, the profile is low but I still swing wide ;\) .

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Originally Posted By: stillloveshim
Truth be told, this current marriage really is over. I agree with him, it really is not worth saving. However, I would like to start again with him, with new eyes, new attitude, new hopes and a different plan and effort for us to make it into a future together.
For example, I know now that I need more ME time. I was way way too wrapped up in the baby and I think this is one of the problems and how all of this started. Minimum GAL has been a huge thing for me. I think he's noticed that too and is happy for me.
There was a time when we were completely aware of each other. I don't know how else to explain it. I would like to be there again. I would like to save that or bring it back anyways.
A better sentence would have been "One hour I believe we can bring back the good/great things we once had and bring in new good/great things to our new marriage."
Why?
Do I really have to explain that?

**side note: Where in Va are you? graduated from Tech.


Once upon a time.......... I was there too.......... how different things look now.


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Judging by the smell.....I would say it's probably my ass. Or it could be a hole in the ground. I can't tell them apart.

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LOL

Been there.

The view sucks.

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Very dark.....

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Nope, not even close.
But I've always done better if I had a goal. You would think that I would stop doing that because I hear God laughing. All the time.
Brains/minds...very sponge-like.
I'll learn, I'll make room.
My family is worth it.

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