Jeff, I think most of us can relate to what you are going through. Your kids are old enough to talk to them. Really talk to them. Both of you together. I believe things will be ok in the end. How you handle things from now on will really be important to your kids. You are setting "patterns" and role models now even more than ever maybe. Stay strong and focused. And try to be honest as much as you can. Kids can read between the lines. xxx K
