Ok, we are remodifying the agreement. It will only be til the end of this year. I am having her make all kinds of changes to it so she doesn't have to pay for an attorney and I guess it will free me up to leave tomorrow barring something else happening. Which I hope something else does happen.
I sent her one last request to really examine herself morally before going through with this. It will probably piss her off. But once this is done, I can't say anything further. It will be totally up to her what she wants to hear and doesn't want to hear.
I can't believe its finally coming to this. But it is. She is just to far caught up in OM and money and the lifestyle to really step back and look at things right now. I tried to explain that just because you can do something, doesn't necessarily mean you should. It will send her into a tizzy.
I know who she used to be. But she is just overtaken by to much else right now to see it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...