Advice please. I'm working my way through the books. I'm giving trying to give H space at the moment. He is still in spare room, as I don't yet know what has happened, how should I handle the weekends? He has already told me he is out Fri & Sat.
Last sat he stayed out til half four, never done that before. I know he was at a friends house as others were there. Anyway, am I being a door mat if I object to him staying out? Do I even have a right to question him? I realise I can go out too, what I mean is, will it make it worse if I say something or will we grow apart if I leave it?
I'm thinking I should just say nothing, we have counselling the following Wed, I'm not expecting miracles either.
