Hi tpaschal,

You are right, dating should happen at a certain pace...and it is exactly that which I plan to do...This was an 'accident' waiting to happen...I wanted it..I needed it, as for the guy...well, it's sad in a way, but he is very shy, works so much that hardly has a social life, and that which he has, he spends mostly helping out his sister at the bakery and taking care of her kids and his mom...He was even too shy towards me. I think that is what turned me off in a way, I want a man who stands tall and knows what he wants...this guy was too soft, too uncertain, too shy.

He was sweet enough to send me a TM saying that he was on his way to the airport this morning for his trip to Asia, and that he would miss me and wished me the very best. Oh well...

I spent the day with the kids and my sister and her kids, it was great, spending it together...we had so much fun.

Tomorrow my MIL is coming over to go shopping with the girls, I hope we will have a good time in Town.

I've been enjoying life on a different level since this whole 'one night stand' happened. It was unsafe and foolish, but it has done me a world of good too. Now, like with everything, we take what we can learn from it, benefit from the rest and forget the bad!

thanks for popping in ! \:\)


Love Cinders xxx

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