Hope everyone had a great Valentines day! Sorry I've been MIA.. So much going on here.
H has been on the computer non-stop with work. So I haven't even had a chance to come on.
stressful issues with my mom, But its just her normal Crapola.
S6 is having some trouble with some kid in Kindergarten, If you can believe that!!! He got punched in the face. I was soooooo Ticked, If you know my son at all, he is a gentle soul. Would not hurt a fly. Kids these days are just so Different from when we were in school, its scary. so I had to take out a can of Woop azz and go down to the school. I have an appt. to see the principal on Monday. Turns out he only got a warning!! WTH is that!! Anyways, I will make is known that if anybody touches my kid, there will be action taken... Nocodes you may have to bail me out of jail
Anyways, besides that, S6 is having trouble with reading and writing, yup in kindergarten they are expected to read and write... He is so stressed out and on top of which his teacher is telling me they may have to put him in T1. Im not happy about it at all. He is a novemeber baby that is why I didn't send him to K last year. Anyways, I'm going to have to start working hard with him.
Im really sick right now, I have no idea how I got sick because the kids arent', but I think its because Im so run down. My sinuses are killing me.
H was playing with the boys last night and tripped and fell on a sippy cup. He was in bad shape last night. Its always something!!
Other than that, things have been ok with us. Just chugging along.
Hope everyone is ok, just been so busy, and just trying to focus on S6 right now.
love to all
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Hey rob... Im sure they do, but Its always the same of chit with her.
My mom treats me completely opposite of my younger sister. Im only good for "Crisis situations" ie, my dad's health, etc. My sister is the good time one. My mom watches my niece on a regular basis, my mom only watches my boys if im in a pinch. Its gotten worse since my sister had the baby. No you all know that H and I never get out. Well Valentines day came, and my sister beat me to the punch and she was going to watch my niece, knowing that I had already told her that I would like to go out alone with H. She definately makes me feel that I don't deserve a night out alone, because she never did with my dad while we were growing up. Such a long story.
Anyways, ended up taking the boys with us. It was of course a nice dinner, but in this area, we are sooo lacking alone time, and I have talked to my mom about it. Either she doesn't care, and can't be bothered. I don't have anyone else to watch the boys, sitters are very scarce, and I won't let a stranger watch them. BUT my sister has a mother in law and two sister in laws who could watch my niece.. I don't have that luxury and she knows it. Why is that the selfish child gets more from the parent than the other??
Anyways, on to the next.. both boys have strep throat, yup I jinxed myself by saying they were fine the other day!! I can't believe it! So Here we go again.
Don't have any time to breath..
Thanks everybody!
Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
My parents feel the same as yours about the fact that we shouldn't need time out alone because they never did. They DO watch our son, but it is ALWAYS a big deal. Never a "Sure! We would love to come over and watch S!"
Get those kids healthy. Sick kids are tough. Hang in there, Mama.
Hey guys... surprised my thread hasen't locked yet.
Things are ok here. Dealing with this headache for the last 7 days, Im headed to the dr. today. S3 split his head open on my banister last night, so we had to make a trip to the ER last night... This morning he woke up with a croup cough!!! I can't win.
H is off to a meeting today. He will be gone all day. I need a break. We had a little tiff yesterday. We were taking the kids to the park and there was a pretty girl parked next to us and I swear he just can't help himself. He looked over at her at least 3 times. I finally said " how many times are you going to look at that girl, its so obvious!" He says to me, OH I thought I knew her, I said ya right she's about 20 years youger than you, I doubt it!
Normally that crap wouldn' bother me, but man, every since our problems, I just think its so dis-respectful.. am I wrong?? I mean looking once is one thing.. but 3 freakin times???
This is the crap that he does that makes me feel like im not good enough. I know I should just get passed it, but I can't. I guess im just tired of it.
Ok guess chime in, and try to be gentle
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
