Well that's the thing about this site and after reading DR, I realized there are hundreds upon thousands upon millions who've been here. It was a relief, just to know I am not unique, so believe me, I'm happy to not be special.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
I have two questions: Is there something you have always wanted to do...school, class, or project that you felt you were unable to dobecause there wasn't enough time because you were married with children?
What are your fears? Simple one or two. Snakes, heights, water.
Not anymore. I wanted to take up something out doors. Before H did the walk out the door cha-cha I had started to play tennis. I suck, but I love it. Since the H left, I've joined more leagues because I actually have more me time since the separation. Something didn't occur to him: He would have less time and I would have more. He has S on M-W and every other weekend and every other opposite Thursday. But I will give H credit, he sees S everyday. So now that I have this guaranteed time fore me, I use it. I leave. I do yoga now too. I'm more flexible than I thought. I'm training to run a 5K. My knees sort of hurt but I want to run just one, then I'll quit. I have actually not been going out-out with the girls because it's just really not me anymore, but we do less expensive things at one of our homes, sometimes with the kids, sometimes without. (I'm trying to be frugal. H and I have some debt, which ironically I'm grateful for because its bought me some time.)
Hmmm. Fears. Being attacked, physically. S being hungry or attacked, physically. Drowning or burning to death. I'm sure there's more that will pop into my head as I'm trying to fall asleep.
