It's great to have goals but look at the three you have picked.....they are ALL about things you want to get your H to do for you.
Those may be impossible things to achieve as you have no control over them. Set yourself goals you can achieve that MAY bring about the things you list below that you want to happen. Those goals may be for example:-
1. Ensure that when I talk to my H I am upbeat and positive 2. I will try to smile and look happy around my H 3. I will make sure the TV is not on when H gets home
The above are all things YOU can do and they may lead to the end results you listed.
Set goals you control and can achieve so that you feel you are progressing and you may get the outcomes you desire.
I don't feel I am explaining this very well. I guess I am saying look at changes you can make rather than trying to control how your H acts.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
