Now, Stop it.. Im telling you this because I care. You are a wonderful father. The boys are going through something that is effecting them, now wether it be while they are with you or the wicked witch, its no matter. I don't think that them acting up has anything to do with you having them at that particular time. For all you know they do the same thing with her, she just is NOT going to tell you about it! Kids are kids, they need help through this too,which I know you know and this is not a reflection on you. If their mother uses it against you, I hope and pray the judge sees right through that!!!
Their mother decided to cheat, you didn't make that choice. Instead of her trying to put the pieces back together she chose to rip her family apart. Now, This is of her own doing. Stop blaming yourself, please. Yes you have a purpose, your upsetting me with what you are saying.Don't let her do this to you, you are giving her way too much power over you.
Can you go and talk to your priest, or someone you can just vent to face to face?
Im sorry that you got your "letter" . As much as you've been through, I know it still hurts. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you. Please know that you have helped me over the long months and you are a real friend. Keep your chin up. Email me anytime.
Tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
