yes, But, But..... ;-) point taken. I was horrible to say stuff about my Mum because she is a lovely person. I can see now how I maybe allowed my frustration at my own family affect relations with H. I'm going to work on being more patient with my mum and dad. Won't be easy with my dad.
I've made some small goals, well actually had a list of about twenty but cut it right down and have three which are very small goals. I think anyway.
1. I would like H to ask about my day when he comes home.
2. I would like H to show a little affection/concern, nothing big, just a smile or something.
3. I would like H to stop watching t/v and look at me when he answers when I ask about his day.
Not going to ask for these things yet. I sense that it is a bit too soon.