You DO have great kids. I'm guessing it had everything to do with their mom, too. I agree to let your ex deal with his own mess.

You know.....he may be getting a new car, going to have money soon, etc........Things may seem to be going splendidly for him....but what price will he pay, even if it is true? DOn't think for a second, that deep down, he doesn't know the truth of how things went down and how GOd sees this. He has to live with that the rest of his life. Some day he will face this. You may never know when that happens, but it will happen. It probably already has.