I've Come Full Circle 24

[kat727]

Let me first say that I wasn't trying to snoop when I found out this next bit of information. I was on FB checking my incoming messages when my son's inbox comes up. There are several notes from his Dad trying to engage him in conversation. I looked at one(I know how terrible) that had him explaining how in the next 9 to 12 months he plans to move in with skank and he will have all this money to buy them whatever they want.(Disney Dad)

Also how he doesn't understand why s13 doesn't interact with skank. He will have to when he has them on weekends and they are living together.(barf) Of course he goes on to say how he doesn't want to force them to do anything but in the next sentence says I make the decisions when I have you.

He also tried to convince him how wonderful skank is. I don't see much of a conversation here. Kind of his same old act...this is how it is because I say so, live with it.

So I see that he hasn't changed a whole lot. Really didn't learn much except how he thinks he is opening communication. He is trying but doesn't know what to do. I have already decided that I am not helping, this is his mess. Besides I have enough to worry about.

The kids seem fine when they are with me. I try to engage them in conversations about everything under the sun, so it isn't just the gloom of his mess. I love them so much and they have all helped me so much. I will keep doing everything that I can to help get them past this. And I know they are doing all they can for me too. funny how that works.

kat