jojo just read some of your posts not all, but just wanted to remind u that u keep looking at what u did, remeber alot of this has nothing to do with u.....one thing that I noticed lately and i will try and conmpare it..is i have a friend who I really liked but she started driving me crazy calling me all the time and then just started making plans like I am coming down your way...and automatically started checking my free time...like when i had it we would be doing somehting.....oh my gosh...i was like....now it isnt anythink about her really but i need spalce from her.....when this happened i started thinking is that the same thing my h feels about me and your about u? then i realized the best thing really is to leave them alone....and sort through this...let them come to u