Glad you are feeling solid with your H. I am sure he sees it too. When you step back and compare your sich versus his sich its almost silly. His life is so chaotic and a mess. You are getting yours together and its great.
Enjoy softball! Let me know how it goes.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!