Hi This Can't Be the End. I haven't written to you before, my name is PM. I feel your pain in your last post so I wanted to offer my support and experience with a DB coach.
My DB coach is Joanne and I have talked with Jodi as well. They are great! It is definitely worth the money. They are great listeners and will tell you things that these boards cannot tell you. Often here you may be conflicting advice but these counsellors are trained and ready, they know how men and women behave because they are so seasoned in DB and other types of MC training.
I feel your desperation, you need guidelines to help you move this M back on its tracks. I know you want to save it rather than 'turn off the love you had for him for 28 years' so don't let a few bucks stop you from doing that, OK? Talk to a DB coach, they will make you feel very comfortable, very welcome. You will get lots of sympathy and they are wise. There is nothing to be frightened of.
I hope I have shed some light on the telephone coaching experience. In case you think I am their advertising agent, my thread is in Infidelity (don't know how to attach a thread sorry) and it's called PM thread #4 so I am a real person. Good luck :-)
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
