I also explained last week that if she had told my brother I needed to know because I then didn't want to lie and say everything was fine when he knew it wasn't thereby, me telling him lies.
Regrets,
The above two statements conflict with one another. The reason I am pointing this out is to show that we can have a subjective view about telling lies. Your second statement indicates that you would only be telling a lie if you brother knew.....that's not the case though....regardless of your brother knowing about you and your H, you are either fine or you are not. What your mother has told your brother is irrelivant. Your mum was being truthful when she didn't lie to your brother about how you were. Can you see the hypocrisy?
I know what family are like, don't get me wrong, but I bet they mean well underneath it all.....and now they know they can be supportive of you.
If the Kalms don't do the trick please see your GP. I was prescribed propanalol and just used it when required....not on a regular basis.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
