I hope that you don't have any bruises from my comments yesterday. I'm sorry if I seemed harsh. I HATE what your H is doing to you. Your spirit is a happy and smiling ray of sunshine.
I'd like to 2x4 him.
Anyway, I know that it is easier to see from the "outside" than when you are in the middle of your own situation. Forgive me if I made you feel bad.
((((MT))))
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.