WAH2

[Tawnya]

{{{Kassie}}} You were very brave to put that out there on the board and, trust me, it always feels better to do that afterwards.

You get nothing but support and understanding from me. See..to be honest..my hub and I were very similar. We had fought good gosh..sooooo much in our 21 year relationship that I couldn't even begin to imagine to try to tell you. The week before we were married we fought to the point that I wasn't sure we would get married and I wouldn't be surprised if we didn't fight on our honeymoon too. So I understand where you are coming from on that one..and it is not a pretty place esp after 21 years of it!

I agree with what everyone says about you doing what you feel you need to, and it IS so tough when you WANT the marriage to work and YOU, Kassie, are doing all that you can and probably doing him a HUGE favor with this "tough love", letting him stand on his own 2 feet and hope he doesn't fall..

{{{{Kassie}}}} I will try to adjust my bat signal so I hear your postings before I go to bed LOLOL..seriously..keep posting, keep venting, keep journaling..keep DOING..you are doing GREAT and are much stronger than you give yourself credit for!

Tawnya