Hey MrsM... sounds like you have really been getting on and living your life, good for you. Lots of seeing friends and socialising !
I know exactly what you mean about observing couples where the woman is behaving like X and yuo can see problems looming and how amazed you are to see the dynamics of other peoples R's in a way that you wouldnt have done before all of this happened to us. I found for a long while that I keep expecting people with these issues to split up, but I am slowly getting back to the point where I dont expect that, as in fact, most people muddle on in their dysfunction.. not many people are hit with a WAS like we were.
Hey glad you enjoyed band night too! Arent they the best? M3 sounds like he is still showing interest in you?
And lastly.. wow, so your H got in touch and said he would phone !?? You know, its a New Moon in Pisces today.. and some pretty spectacular stuff happening with Jupiuter this week, so things are supposed to speed up and start happening.. good luck with talking to him.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread