Silver, Most waywards not only go crazy with OW but with their finances. They look for ways to cover the cost of carrying on their A.

Also your H might be racking up the credit because he is looking to go bankrupt and trying to use it all up before.

Make sure you will not be financially responsible for his debt.

I go to the atty on Thursday. I am looking to protect the most I can for my family. I know so many people that never fought and regretted it. My philosophy is if H comes out of the fog and wants to reconcile then at least I have salvaged something for both of us and H will be grateful, otherwise he will blow every cent he has.

Glad you are opening the mail. H got a post office box so I hardly get anything these days. REally miss steaming open those envelopes! lol

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09