Hi Dudess, I always smile when you come by - I don't know if I've ever really told you how much your words, advice and compassion helped me through a lot of this - together with Smartcookie, the two of you shared with me perspectives that I never could have come to on my own - and you helped me on my journey toward freeing myself from B's anger in order to find myself again.
I hope the rest of the process goes smoothly too...I don't know that it will, but I do know that I won't play into her anger games...I sometimes just marvel at how much tension left my life and my home after she moved out - not that it was all because of her - but our poor dynamics seemed to thrive on negative energy - much like a black hole...
