Well, the "I have something I want to say" or the "We need to talk" phrase is only used for bad news.....
For once I would like to hear " I have something I want to say...you are a wonderful husband and father" or something crazy like that....
For us guys, we need to hear it, even if we aren't the best, but you can be sure we will want to live up to the woman's expectations that tells us this......
I think that sometimes we have to focus on what's good to get to what's better.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09