letting go// any suggestions?

[peacetoday]

thanks Steve
well I had another issue today with STBX

He got a cell Phone for aOW last year and put it on the business policy
I told him 4-6 weeks ago when I began legally controlling the business that he had to transfer her off the plan
at first he agreed and said in a few weeks

the next time I brought it up he Yelled LEAVE that phone alone
so I left it till bill came today

I did make a big mistake b/c I bought S7 a phone and told him I would activate it when bill came..So I switched her line with a new # to S7
when H got home to OW, he switched it back to her
legally he is wrong as the business wil/should not pay for her
phone
power struggle with me OW and H
they won again
now I dont knoe what to do
but I refuse to pay for her to keep that phone and S7 phone got deactivated and hes all upset
any thoughts here
thansk
peace