I'm sorry to hear that. So I guess it goes without saying that the two of you have a toxic R.
I think it really is time for you to put yourself first - something you haven't done since you married him?
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10