Just checking in. Sounds like you have alot going on. Me too. That is terrific advice from PostiveMom - hope you two can talk more. I still think your M has a chance, but damn it's hard work!
Stay strong.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10