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[Punktmann]

Lyfe, You SHOULD change your name to Still Living, PMA starts in your head, not at the gym.

Still Waters wrote you a VERY powerful post. There's a lot in there to examine closely.

I won't rehash not giving her ammo, but as a way to judge your decisions, imagine telling someone you really respect about your actions if he didn't know ANYTHING about the sit. If you would feel the need to explain your actions, they probably aren't in the DBing spirit.

I agree with S.L. on exposure, the roaches run when the lights get turned on. In retrospect for me, it lasted about 3 years. In retrospect, I would have told the OM's wife, my XW's boss, (they worked together,) her parents, everyone.

That approach is not for everyone, it's for a man who is ready to call end-game and ready to deal with the fallout of a train wreck. Kids make a difference there. Now I wish I had though.


Best,

Punkt.