Now. DO NOT leave your house. If she wants out let her go. She need to do the work not you. Don't do it.
They do have a tendency to rerwite history and forget anything good about the R. It's up to you to read and learn and decide for yourself if it is a crisis.
It seems like I've seen one of your threads in walk away or somewhere. Still apply the same dbing principles. With mlc sometimes you will receive a lot of unprovoked anger. It is very important not to get sucked in to an argument. It only feeds the beast.
This takes a ton of patience and time, if you decide you are going to stand, there are no gaurantees. It's an all or nothing deal. It will test you in ways like never before. In order to come out on the positive side of this and that doesn't mean saving your m, it means saving you, you HAVE to change for the better.
You are in control of you and that is all. So change you and do it permanently. Are any of her complaints legit?(nobodys perfect) Change for the better. Again this takes time. No R talks, avoid the D talks do not get sucked in. You have to really start moving forward with your life and let her spin on her own.
One of the most difficult tasks at first is being kind and patient without becoming a doormat. Ask questions, read , jump on other peoples threads, and keep your focus on you. Spend time and take care of your daughter, she needs you.
