Definitely give it the entire month. I'm in agreement with that. Maybe God will show you something at the end. Never know. Just keep praying, being faithful, and asking him to show you signs of what you should do. He will. Its not selfish to ask for direction from God. If you stay faithful to him, he will show you. Just be listening and watching when he does.
Thats what I try to do. So far, by miracle only, I am still in my house by delays that keep coming up beyond any of my doing. Its amazing. I'm not going to say its going to change my W's mind. But something is going on. God is directing me for a reason. And every day I pray for direction and ask God to show my signs on what he wants me to do. I also pray for the reconciliation fo my M every day. Most days I pray multiple times a day.
Keep being patient. You might be surprised especially since the A seems to be dying down. Remember, its in Gods time, not ours.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
