He married another lady and is completely happy. But here's the kicker. He said, "I should have given our marriage another chance. I still love her and it was just my ego that said no.
Makes one wonder how he could be "completely" happy if he still loves his first wife, doesn't it? Maybe it is like some have said, that there are different types of loves. Maybe he is happy with second wife and loves her, but not in the same sence he loved his first wife. I think we can love people and yet they can make us miserable. Perhaps that is the kicker. Perhaps we have to make the decision if it will forever be that way or not.
I do believe our "ego" is the biggest thing that gets in the way where reconciling, forgiveness, etc. is concerned. So sad to think how many people have lost the love of their life simply b/c of their ego.
Hi, LIS.....just dropping in for a bit since it has been a while. I have to hand it to you and H4U that you guys have really hung in there a long time. I know you must be weary. Hope you are taking care of yourself.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
