Haven't been by for a while, but I'm still around. I was scanning over the post and for what it's worth, I think you may be close to getting "burn out". Your needs have gone unmet for a long time. You feel that you have worked your a$$ off trying to make the M stick. You feel that she has not even half heartly put any effort into doing work at the M and nothing about meeting your needs. I think you could be close to getting that burn out feeling. I felt like you were some time back and yet you are still hanging in here fighting.
I don't know, and don't pretend to know, but your wife could still be a WAW in her heart and has just not come around yet. You would think since it doesn't like much being a years since NC with OM that you would have seen more results unless she still has some unresolved resentment she is clinging to.
Wish I could say something encouraging to you, friend. Mainly wanted you to know that I had not forgotten about you. As always, I am hoping things get better soon.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
