Que Sera, Sera - Whatever Will Be, Will Be

[lemonsnap]

I just co-signed an application for an apartment with my H so that he can move out.

Sigh.

Since he's been a full-time student up until this point (he plans to take some time off to work full times starting at the end of this quarter) he doesn't have the ability to apply for an apartment on his own yet. He's told me that he will remove me from the apartment once he is working.

Talk about a bittersweet moment. I spent a few weeks cajoling and trying to get him to stay, but he's 100% decided. So that's my loving detachment/180. (Try to0 support him in his decision and let him go, with the hopes that it will help him/us in the long term.

Who knows.

I did have to tell him, calmly, that I am doing this because I know he doesn't have any other option, but that I needed him to know that I'm NOT signing it because I support his leaving, but because I know he needs to do this and can't do it on his own.

Ugh. Did I just give him a completely mixed message?
I think I just gave MYSELF a mixed message.

It was one of those rock and hard place decisions.

Damned if I do, damned if I don't.