First off standard greeting, "Sorry you are here."
Now that, that is out of the way.
Well sadly she is right about not believing instant changes. They tend not to last.
Since you mentioned it, what does she want you to change? Is she right?
If this is MLC this is a long haul nerf. It's not the weak or faint of heart, but you're a Brit so you got the quiet suffer with dignity thing going for you already. (It's a joke).
She is violent? Anything you did that brought that crap about?
You want to know if it is MLC...That is always a hard question to answer. Read up on the resources somewhere near the top of this board. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it probably is a duck.
One thing forget the timeline when you do read the resources, ignore it, it is not a good thing to follow.
Divorce Busting is the book you want to read, BUT don't let her see you reading it.
No magic bullets or magic fixes here...it is all hard work, and it is all worth it.
Change yourself for yourself.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
