Cinders, I have been in your shoes...and I felt remorse too...and I forgave myself.

My divorce will be final in a matter of days if not weeks. And you know what? I feel great about it. I feel like the world is my oyster...and so many good things are in store.

You deserve the absolute best, sweets...this is YOUR journey to self-realization...God put things in your path for a reason...learn from it...accept it and above all, TRUST in the Lord. He will never abandon you and He will never lead you to a dark place...

Love,
Vali

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller