I think it's good that you're contemplating all your options at this point. I'm a big proponent of not doing something big unless you know in your gut you're ready for that next step. So I don't know that you need to fish or cut bait (my less crude version \:\) ) right now. That's just my two cents.

I would recommend going the whole month of darkness before making the next move, whatever it may be. Perhaps it's just a personal thing, but for me it was/is important to follow through with a plan since I'm terrible at follow through. That's why I scheduled MC even though I knew deep down it wasn't going to do any good. I had suggested it, xBF had agreed, so I wanted to show both of us that I would follow through.

As I'm writing this I realize that I'm procrastinating horribly in regards to my job search. I have a meeting with my counselor tomorrow afternoon and I haven't even started my assignment that's going to take several hours. So I'm off and will return tomorrow!

If you love somebody, set them free.
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