I do NOT think you are being hypersensitive. You have to get your needs met too. Absolutely.
Geez. Can't believe she has never apologized about her A. Can't believe you didn't make her or expect her to before you agreed to R. I have to agree with Flynn and Kat.
You need to bring it up now. And you need to get what you need too. She must think this is a great ride! She has the A, and you are bending over backwards to make her happy!!!
I think all I am wanting is for you to have concrete proof so that when you go to her to complain, you have instances of her behavior. It's not "when I get apples and carrots at the grocery store" which implies always/never, it's "Sunday when I did this, you...xyz" Make 1000 billion percent sure that she hasn't said thank you for a week or been interested in anything you do for a week or whatever because believe me, she sounds like the type who will throw up the ONE time that you forgot and use it against you so that it deflates the rest of your argument. Have had that happen to me and then I am all flustered and forget the point. I HATE arguing.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
