I don't get on this site too much anymore, it can get a bit depressing.
It is crazy the way you think you have everything under control and then some thing happens and you see that you still have a long way to go.
My STBXW still hasn't filed, still has here beau staying at the family home when he's in town and still pointedly ignoring me when I visit the kids. her loss.
I was given a box of chocolates before Christmas for doing a santa gig at this local church, so not wanting them myself I gave them to loverboy as a Christmas present, I had presents for the kids, a cheap one for the ex2b & her family etc. so I figured I'd give him one too. wtf as they say. Still hasn't caused any thawing of his icy looks when I turn up at her place. His problem not mine.
Am thinking of filing myself, government is giving most of us a cash payment to try to bolster the economy over here, so I might use the governments $'s to file, I'll see. Seems like enough is enough to me.
Well, take care Jeff. I'll update my 2 year old thread shortly.
