Hi Song, Just stopping by to say that I'm thinking of you. I'm sorry it's a really rough time right now.
How will the two of you know if things in your situation are improving? I'm sure there are all sorts of signs, from minor to major, that you could list.
Have you met any of those?
One of mine is for my H to give me a hug without me asking for one. Another is for him to hold my hand (that's certainly not happening yet, although he did give me a hug yesterday.) I find it easier to measure things with teaspoons rather than gallons.
lemonsnap
Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09