Que Sera, Sera - Whatever Will Be, Will Be

[lemonsnap]

Greek and/or Coach,
If you're out there, I'd love to get your feedback on my situation.
Greek, I've seen the posts you've done on some other threads regarding the "other" perspective, and I've found them invaluable. I welcome any insight into what my H might be experiencing emotionally right now, since he's not in a position to convey it to me himself.

A few things that you and Coach mentioned really struck me and relate very much to my situation:

Coach wrote "The better option is to leave because the pain of staying is greater than the pain of leaving." Truth. I know - this was me when I left.

Coach also wrote "Make yourself so strong of mind, body, heart and spirit that you love her enough to let her be her own person." Key. I know - this is what my H did...and I came home.

I'll try to track you down on other threads, but if you can make it here, I'd really appreciate your insight.

Thank you!