Here's the version I sent:

You cheated on me and lied about it, to my face and to others. And you continue to be involved in this affair. I want to be with someone who I trust, someone who doesn't lie to me and hurt me. You obviously are not that type of man.

You also told me that you stayed with me because it was easier than leaving. I will never again be with someone who feels that way about our relationship. I tried with you, but I can now see that it just wasn't working for us. I want to be with someone who loves me and WANTS to be with me and isn't just staying because it is easier on him.

I want and deserve to be with someone who I feel is my best friend. We never had that.

And if your message below is a representation of your feelings for me and our relationship then it's just not enough for me, not even close.


My advice is not to send it until you know you're ready. I think you really need to mean everything that's said. With me it's not a tactic or ploy of any kind, this is how I feel. Well, I feel even more but decided to tone it down. But you already know about the anger. ;\)


If you love somebody, set them free.
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