If your W is not sure about Retrouvaille, some folks on here have been known to sell it to their S's as a way to learn to communicate so that they can at least D 'gracefully' and communicate effectively during the process to reduce L costs etc.
Once there what happens is up to you guys. Whatever the outcome, I can't remember anyone on hear saying they wished they had never gone.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength