Cinders, you're human. Get a grip. Quit beating yourself up.
One tiny indiscretion...Geesh! Also, you may wanna re-think drunk texting your STBXH next time.
But STOP IT NOW. The crap we have been through for YEARS with these lunatics is enough to drive anyone mad...seriously. So it happened. Lesson learned. move on...you are still a person of integrity. The only difference is that you have found out how human you are after all. Nothing more.
Love you, mean it!
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller