At this stage you need to protect yourself at all costs. If not you, then who? She does not have your interests in mind. Do not be afraid of upsetting her, she learned long ago how to pull your strings and her getting upset is just one of those ways.
Now is the time to stand up for yourself sir.
Even if she does not respect you for it (and she should), show respect for yourself right now.
My best wishes to you, SF
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
