Thanks for the encouragement volleydog. It's not a move back situation though... she rented an apartment 2 miles from our house, and we shift back and forth between apartment and house.
This is after me digging in my heels(and pursuing) for the first 3 months, with her at the apartment, me at the house, and kids shuffling back and forth.
So now it's a better sitch for the kids, as they have stability in the house, but neither me or W has one place to call "home". It's messed up, but I hope and pray that we reconcile.