Another lapse last night which ended up in a blazing row again!
I think one of my W friends is interfering a fair bit and it’s as if she is trying to convince my W that she has to go through with this, I just don't know what's going on anymore.
The last week or so things have been a lot more relaxed between us, as I’ve said in some of my others posts I’ve made a real effort over this time to just get on with things and not react to her actions or moods, and I’ve gotta say that it did seem to make things better, my W was pleasant to me and actually responded if I engaged her in conversation and started doing little things for me again like making me a coffee or doing my washing when she did hers.
My W went to visit her mother this weekend. Whilst she was there I got a couple of texts from her, nothing too serious just things like letting me know she had got there safely and stuff. When she got home Sunday afternoon I opened the door to her and got a smile, she immediately initiated conversation with me and told me all about her weekend and what a crap journey back she’d had. Things carried on like this for an hour or so and we really seemed to be getting on.
My W disappeared upstairs for an hour to phone one of her friends, I left her to it and carried on playing with our daughter and didn’t disturb her at all. After speaking to her friend she stormed down the stairs and just started on me for absolutely no reason! My daughter tried to defend me and say daddy hasn’t done anything wrong why are you shouting at him but my W just then had a go at her as well even though neither of us had done or said anything!
I could be wrong but it just seems as though this friend is sticking her oar in and is causing trouble between us.
This is the reason we ended up in another argument last night. I didn’t react straight away and just walked away from my W when she started shouting at me. The argument happened a couple of hours after this, although I knew I shouldn’t say anything I was that peed off at the thought that her friend was stirring up trouble I just couldn’t help myself and mentioned that things seemed to have become hostile between us again since she’d spoken to her friend. We’d had a week or just over of really getting along then she speaks to her mate and BANG she’s all hostile towards me again!
To make matters even more confusing, I received a text from her whilst I was at work today which was signed off with two kisses???? She always used to sign off in this way but hasn’t done it for months.
Just gonna carry on reading my copy of DB, about half way through now, and see what else I can do.
