Refuse To Lose, Part XII: A New Start

[kat727]

I just have to hop in, I think your ex and my ex went to the same cheater's class because I think he said nearly the same thing to me!! The fact that our S16 doesn't want to spend the weekend with him has nothing to do with S16's disapproval of his father's choices but is instead my letting him call the shots! WTH????

I know with your D being 5 there is a big difference but for some reason they feel that the divorce and their actions preceding it, will not effect the kids adversely at all. I would say to stay as grounded as possible with her and you will come to be the one person that she knows she can always count on.

kat