Another thing that worries me, is that when I talked with her New Years Eve (the last R talk we had), she said
"I moved into the apartment because I knew things wouldn't change if I didn't move out. I kept thinking something would wake me up and change the way I felt, but since we've been apart, I'm just much more at peace."
It was after that night that I finally got it, stopped pursuing, and started DB'ing. Do I still have a chance, or did the pursuing I did the first 3 months of separation mess up chances of reconciliation?
