Maybe I should be in piecing part 6?

[kat727]

Then you must be a saint! I dealt with this stuff for 2.5 years becasue I loved my H. Now he talks about me fighting for our marriage as if it were some criminally offense!

You have changed some too. With what you put up with before, now just isn't good enough. I think you have been letting her know that her thoughts and feelings matter but does it never get to be about you??? At least a little? The resentment will continue to build if you can't let it out at least a little. Maybe don't tackle the whole thing right now but at least start on the tip of the iceberg and gradually you will be talking about the elephant that is sitting between you.

You can do this and by the way...you need to.

kat