Oh, my goodness, jojo,

I am so sorry that you are feeling these feelings. I do understand them because I feel them too. I don't know how we can stay in our sitches without feeling any other way. My best friend told me just last night to get over and get out of my sitch. I don't even have the sympathy or support from family anymore. I am almost completely alone.

My H called and left the infamous VM on Sat. telling me that "if I can be agreeable, real, practical and sensible about the price of the house then his atty will sit down with us and talk. If not, I may as well just go ahead and file." When I called him back (the next day) he was rude and argumentative. I was calm (finally) and said I would call his atty, which I did.

I left a message saying for her to please call me but not today (because today is my BDay, and I won't be dealing with this). I keep asking him to please tell me if he wants to be friends, and when he does something to hurt me, I always reiterate "so you don't want to be friends then?" And he keeps saying that "you did this." I must not be asking the right way. I think next time, I'll ask him how it is my fault?

Anyway, I'm afraid to give you my opinion because I don't want to hurt you, but it sounds to me, just from your most recent post, that you are strong in your convictions, and that is what counts. People who don't trust are always going to be negative.

Wrapping my arms around you with a big cyberhug.
poet